Choosing a dildo can be an overwhelming decision. That’s why we have guides to help you choose the best one to suit your needs. But once you’ve decided on that, there’s still the question of how to use it to get the best bang for your buck and that’s where I come in, to offer my so-called expertise on all things sexy.
Dildos are sex toys designed for insertion- whether that be to stimulate the G-spot (in the vagina) or the P-spot (in the anus). They come in all shapes, sizes, and colours, with the most common being designed to look penis-like. This is generally because that’s the shape that bodies are designed to accommodate and enjoy!
Double ended dildos in particular can appear a little intimidating at first glance. They feature two separate insertable heads, one at either end, making them perfect for couple play. Like regular dildos, double ended toys come in a variety of shapes and sizes- some flexible, some rigid, from tiny to huge. Some of them are even designed with tapered size with one end being larger than the other so partners who can take different sizes aren’t excluded. These are also fun for solo play as you can work your way up to being able to take the thicker size.
Real Feel 14.5 Inch Double Ended Dildo
- Insertable Length: 14.5 Inches (370mm)
- Diameter Thick End: 1.87 Inches (47mm)
- Diameter Slim End: 0.75 Inches (19mm)
- Circumference Thick End: 5.9 Inches (150mm)
- Circumference Slim End: 2.36 Inches (60mm)
- Material: PVC and Phthalate-free according to EU regulation REACH
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These toys are just as versatile as any other and the only limits are your imagination. For couple play, the ends can be used vaginally or anally (depending on the genitals involved of both partners and preference) with both individuals taking their respective end at once, or for solo play double penetration is an option (taking both ends in one orifice or one end vaginally and one end anally). You can also just use one end of the dildo for penetration if length is something you like a lot of!
13 Inch Double Ended Dildo
- Insertable Length: 13.38 Inches (340mm)
- Diameter: 1.33 Inches (34mm)
- Circumference: 4.1 Inches (106mm)
- Soft & comfortable to use
- Flexible and bendable
- Material: PVC and Phthalate-free according to EU regulation REACH
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Using A Double Ended Dildo
For beginners, I recommend choosing a flexible dildo that can bend to accommodate different positions as you find what works. If you already use dildos or have penetrative sex and have an idea of what length works for you, that’s great, but if you don’t then start small and work your way up. Smaller lengths on double ended dildos can also be more intimate, as the shorter size means couples using them have to get closer together to find a position that’s enjoyable for both people.
12 Inch Mini Double Dong
- Realistic dong with dual tapered realistic vaginal and anal jelly shafts
- Realistic penis detailing double dong with diameter increasing from 0.75 inch to 1.3 inches
- Suitable for double penetration with its slimmer anal ended probe
- Material: PVC and Phthalate-free according to EU regulation REACH
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As with pretty much every sex toy, lubricant will improve the experience, reducing friction from the toy and making for a wetter and better time. This is especially important if inserting anything into the anus, as it doesn’t produce its own natural lubricant like a vagina. Water based lube is the safest option when using it with toys, as silicone based lube can cause toys to react and erode. Make sure to apply lube to both ends of the dildo if they’re both being inserted to make penetration comfortable.
ID Glide Lubricant Water-Based Lube 65ml
- Formulated from the highest quality ingredients, ID Glide is a water based lubricant designed to enhance the pleasure and comfort of those most intimate moments.
- It is also a non sticky, non staining sensually slippery lubricant which not only has a beautifully silk smooth feel but is extra long lasting & can be reactivated with a quick lick or spritz of water.
- ID Glide is a doctor recommended brand and is safe with all condoms.
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Positioning can be tricky when using double ended dildos for the first time. Finding a spot that's comfortable and doesn’t end up with the dildo slipping out isn’t always easy. For solo play and double penetration, insert one end then bend the middle into a U shape and use the middle as a handle while you insert the other end. You can also sit up and place the middle part against a surface to bounce up and down on for a deeper feel.
For couples play, try sitting crab style facing one another. Insert the dildo between you and get closer to others laps by intertwining your legs to rock back and forth. Adding more toys into the mix can be a fun way to enhance this such as a bullet on the clit or head of the penis for extra stimulation. Another position is both of you doggy style and backing into the dildo (this is especially good when taking the dildo anally). You could even use the toy as a strapless strap on using vaginal muscles to keep it in place whilst using it to thrust into your partner (I call this expert level).
Powerful 10 Speed Bullet Vibrator Black
- Mini Bullet Vibe, so little but so strong
- Material: Medical grade Silicone/ABS
- Measures 3(L) x 0.67(W) Inch, 0.71 Ounces
- 10 Modes Frequency
- Compatible with 1 x AAA battery
- 100% Safe & discreet delivery
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Have fun playing around with different positions to find something that works for you as a couple! It might take a lot of practice and experimenting to comfortably use these but it’ll be worth the trial and error for the intimacy these toys can provide. There’s a toy for everyone and a double ended dildo could just be it.
